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Situational Awareness in BDSM

Situational awareness is perceiving, understanding, and predicting the situation you are currently facing. While traditionally used in fields such as aviation and emergency response, most of its principles are easily adapted to the special needs of a BDSM session as … Continue reading

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Guide: Travelling Internationally With Gear

As an international kinkster, I have to travel with my gear all the time. A lot of people overestimate the difficulties when it comes to especially airport security, so here I describe the outline of different precautions you should take … Continue reading

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Gearblast USA 2018: Event Review

Executive Summary: Gearblast US is a unique gear-intensive weekend, straddling nicely between social and sexual, and providing a wide variety of gear interest to cater to most gearheads. While the venue is a bit out of the way, it’s perfect … Continue reading

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FAQ: Poppers and Eye Damage

This is a follow-up to the original article about poppers and their ability to cause permanent eye damage. If you haven’t read the original article, please do, as it details the actual medical way the damage is being done. Isn’t … Continue reading

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How To Stop People From Stealing Your Photos

The only way to stop people from stealing your kinky images and other media is to never put it online, ever. If you destroy your awesome media by using intrusive watermarks, or remove your profile because you’re upset, terrorists win. Most people … Continue reading

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